can anyone please tell me what is the key difference in key features between rainlendar and rememberthemilk?

i have rememberthemilk and most of the tasks on there are just daliy recurring ones though i hardly ever use it because i never remember to check it

this is why desktop/browser notification-based is important --
www.techsupportalert.com/freeware-forum/i-want-freeware-program-that/10787-desktop-or-chrome-notification-for-productitivy.html

chrome has chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/fefdcjabloofphhfcinhfbinmehfcojm but you can't set specific times, and i dont know of any that can

update: actually i just checked rememberthemilk and it does have desktop notification -- but there's a problem -- reminders seem to be set globally to all tasks, and there doesnt seem to be a way to set it for individual tasks -- see www.rainlendar.net/cms/index.php?option=com_kunena&Itemid=42&func=view&catid=3&id=18396

would still like to know the key feature differences (what is missing, what is not) --

Well, the difference is that Remember The Milk is a web service for tasks and Rainlendar is a desktop application for calendar events and tasks. The two are quite different so I'm not sure what kind of feature comparison you are looking for. You can find a list of Rainlendar's features from here: www.rainlendar.net/cms/index.php?option=com_rny_compare